Don’t stop chasing.

I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not work out in the long run is because at one point, one side (or both) stops trying. Before one claims another person as their significant other, they would do anything to make that person happy. They would chase, they would flirt, they would be charming. They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write corny messages and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon your face. But once they claim you as theirs, all of those things eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. The constant calls turn into not calling at all. And the lovely endearments turn into daily arguments. In order for a relationship to work, don’t ever stop chasing. Just because the person you want is now consider “yours”, it does not mean they deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over.

something we all sometimes forget, and should try to remember - i guess i don’t usually blog corny mushy stuff like this but it’s something i’ve been thinking about lately. comfortable is good, and i’d take it over sparks and butterflies any day. but at the same time, sometimes we fall into comfortable almost as an excuse. i don’t know. i feel guilty of this, for sure. it’s good to remind the ones we love how we feel, not because they necessarily need to hear it, but isn’t it always nice to anyway?